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Dr. Saila Subramaniam

Marriage and Family Therapist

Professional Counsellor

Marriage and Family Therapist

Professional Counsellor

教育

OPLEIDING

AKAD. AUSBILDUNG

PENDIDIKAN

PENDIDIKAN

Education

  • Ph.D. Human Development and Family Studies with a specialization in Couple and Family Therapy, (Michigan State University, USA)
  • Masters in Counselling, (HELP University, Malaysia)
  • Bar-at-Law (Honorable Society of Middle Temple, England)
  • LL. B. (Queen Mary University of London, England)
  • Ph.D. Human Development and Family Studies with a specialization in Couple and Family Therapy, (Michigan State University, USA)
  • Masters in Counselling, (HELP University, Malaysia)
  • Bar-at-Law (Honorable Society of Middle Temple, England)
  • LL. B. (Queen Mary University of London, England)

执照 / 专业会员资格

PROFESSIONELE LIDMAATSCHAPPEN

Lizenz / Berufliche Mitgliedschaft

professional licenses in malay

License / Professional Membership

  • US Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist  (Michigan License: 4101006863)
  • Registered & Licensed Counsellor (KB:02373)
  • Clinical Fellow and Approved Supervisor – American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT)
  • International Association of Trauma Professionals
  • US Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist  (Michigan License: 4101006863)
  • Registered & Licensed Counsellor (KB:02373)
  • Clinical Fellow and Approved Supervisor – American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT)
  • International Association of Trauma Professionals

进深培训

Aanvullende kwalificaties

additional qualifcations in malay

Zusaetzliche Qualifikationen

Additional QUALIFICATIONS

Completed Training In:

  • Internal Family Systems
  • PMTO (Parent Management Training - Oregon model)
  • Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction
  • Interpersonal Violence Assessments

Completed Training In:

  • Internal Family Systems
  • PMTO (Parent Management Training - Oregon model)
  • Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction
  • Interpersonal Violence Assessments

专业治疗与辅导陈述

Wie ben ik?

KENYATAAN PROFESSIONAL

KENYATAAN PROFESSIONAL

ÜBER MEINE ARBEIT

Professional Statement

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In an ideal world we would wish to be the agents of change in our own lives. But making change on our own can seem like an impossible task in the face of external pressures, internal insecurities, relationship discord, trauma, guilt, shame and loneliness. It is easy to feel overwhelmed, utterly desperate and bereft of hope. It takes immense courage to take that first step to reach out for help because it can feel intimidating and unfamiliar.

I believe in the healing power of therapy. Over the years I have had the deep privilege of walking with clients going through personal difficulties. I have worked with individuals, couples and families from diverse backgrounds dealing with varying issues such as depression, anxiety, grief and loss, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting problems, and post-traumatic stress. These issues often interrupt our daily lives and can feel debilitating. However, a trusting relationship with a therapist  where we feel accepted, understood and supported can be a catalyst for growth, change and developing fulfilling relationships.

Prior to becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist, I worked as a lawyer for almost 15 years. I dealt with a wide range of litigation work as a legal assistant and legal associate. My experience of working with couples seeking divorce and dealing with custody issues piqued my interest in the field of marriage and family therapy. During a transitional period in my life, I decided to leave the legal profession and learn more about the helping profession instead. I completed the Masters in Counselling at HELP University and was registered and licensed as a counsellor by Lembaga Kaunselor, Malaysia. I was a therapist at Rekindle for 2 years before leaving for the United States to pursue a doctoral degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. After I completed my doctoral degree at Michigan State University, I was appointed as an Assistant Professor in the Department of Human Development and Family Studies. I worked as an instructor, conducted research and supervised graduate students in the Couple and Family Therapy doctoral program in their clinical work. I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist  (Michigan License: 4101006863), and an Approved Supervisor with the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Having returned home to Malaysia, I am happy to be able to restart my practice at Rekindle Therapy and be involved with Rekindle Academy as a Clinical Supervisor.

I am a single mother to two grown up daughters. During my years as a full time mum, I also volunteered as a medical social worker in Kota Bahru. The role of being a mum to my girls has been the most important role of my life and has informed my understanding of evolving parent child relationships. My lived experiences and working with diverse clients in the US and Malaysia have given me a unique perspective on the need for cultural competency and to honour intersectional realities.

I am an integrative trauma-informed therapist and I use evidence based treatments such as Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, Systems modalities, Internal Family Systems, Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Mindfulness to work collaboratively with my clients. My approach to healing is formulated on the integration of the body-mind. I believe that you are the expert on your life experience and my aim is to provide an open, warm, safe and compassionate environment to support and empower you in your journey.

In an ideal world we would wish to be the agents of change in our own lives. But making change on our own can seem like an impossible task in the face of external pressures, internal insecurities, relationship discord, trauma, guilt, shame and loneliness. It is easy to feel overwhelmed, utterly desperate and bereft of hope. It takes immense courage to take that first step to reach out for help because it can feel intimidating and unfamiliar.

I believe in the healing power of therapy. Over the years I have had the deep privilege of walking with clients going through personal difficulties. I have worked with individuals, couples and families from diverse backgrounds dealing with varying issues such as depression, anxiety, grief and loss, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting problems, and post-traumatic stress. These issues often interrupt our daily lives and can feel debilitating. However, a trusting relationship with a therapist  where we feel accepted, understood and supported can be a catalyst for growth, change and developing fulfilling relationships.

Prior to becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist, I worked as a lawyer for almost 15 years. I dealt with a wide range of litigation work as a legal assistant and legal associate. My experience of working with couples seeking divorce and dealing with custody issues piqued my interest in the field of marriage and family therapy. During a transitional period in my life, I decided to leave the legal profession and learn more about the helping profession instead. I completed the Masters in Counselling at HELP University and was registered and licensed as a counsellor by Lembaga Kaunselor, Malaysia. I was a therapist at Rekindle for 2 years before leaving for the United States to pursue a doctoral degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. After I completed my doctoral degree at Michigan State University, I was appointed as an Assistant Professor in the Department of Human Development and Family Studies. I worked as an instructor, conducted research and supervised graduate students in the Couple and Family Therapy doctoral program in their clinical work. I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist  (Michigan License: 4101006863), and an Approved Supervisor with the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Having returned home to Malaysia, I am happy to be able to restart my practice at Rekindle Therapy and be involved with Rekindle Academy as a Clinical Supervisor.

I am a single mother to two grown up daughters. During my years as a full time mum, I also volunteered as a medical social worker in Kota Bahru. The role of being a mum to my girls has been the most important role of my life and has informed my understanding of evolving parent child relationships. My lived experiences and working with diverse clients in the US and Malaysia have given me a unique perspective on the need for cultural competency and to honour intersectional realities.

I am an integrative trauma-informed therapist and I use evidence based treatments such as Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, Systems modalities, Internal Family Systems, Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Mindfulness to work collaboratively with my clients. My approach to healing is formulated on the integration of the body-mind. I believe that you are the expert on your life experience and my aim is to provide an open, warm, safe and compassionate environment to support and empower you in your journey.

语言

TALEN

BAHASA PERANTARAAN

BAHASA PERANTARAAN

SPRACHEN

Languages

English, Bahasa Malaysia, basic Malayalam and basic Tamil

English, Bahasa Malaysia, basic Malayalam and basic Tamil

NOTE: Dr. Johnben Loy is NOT taking on new clients as he is focused on managing the centre's operations and developing training for therapists. Former and current clients may continue to access his services. Prospective clients who are FAMILY BUSINESS members who wish to receive consultation for family relationship issues, please contact the office for more information.